Love Isn’t the Problem.
The Pattern Is.
Break free from the anxious–avoidant cycle, rebuild safety, and create the secure connection you’ve both been longing for.
Real People, Real Transformation
"Sandee is simply amazing. She makes hard points easy to understand. My wife and I have gained so much knowledge and understanding. A true fabulous person."
- Stan Mertes III
YOUR COACH
Meet Sandee
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I didn’t become a couples therapist because I had all the answers — I became one because I was searching for them too. Early in my marriage, I struggled with disconnection, miscommunication, and the push–pull dynamic that left both of us feeling alone.
When I discovered attachment theory, everything clicked. I saw that we weren’t broken — we were just stuck in protective patterns. For the last 10+ years, I’ve helped couples recognize those patterns, heal their wounds, and rebuild the intimacy they thought was lost.
Now I’m bringing this work online so more couples can access the tools that actually create lasting change.
MORE ABOUT SANDEE
DOES THIS SOUND LIKE YOU?
You feel unseen or unheard — like your partner doesn’t really get you.
You love each other, but it feels more like being roommates than partners.
Your fights go in circles: one of you shuts down while the other gets louder.
You want closeness, but your partner wants space — and it feels like rejection.
You still love each other, but connection feels out of reach.
You’re not alone — and you’re not broken. You’re caught in a cycle that can be changed.
WAYS TO WORK WITH ME
Community Coaching
$499 + $99/month
Entry-level access to the 12-week program, group calls, and community.
Group Coaching
$2,499 + $99/month
12-week group program with weekly calls, course access, one private session, and community support.
Private Coaching
$5,499 + $99/month
12-week personalized program with 6 private sessions, weekly group calls, and direct video feedback.
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THE LOVE LABÂ
COMMUNITY
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Healing doesn’t happen in isolation. That’s why I created The Love Lab — a safe, supportive community where couples practice real tools for connection. Inside, you’ll share wins, challenges, and encouragement with others on the same journey.
✨ Connection is contagious — and in The Love Lab, you’ll never feel alone.
Explore Coaching Options
Free Masterclass: Attachment Theory Basics
Learn the foundations of attachment theory and how to break the anxious–avoidant cycle. You’ll discover:
âś“ Why you keep having the same fights
âś“ The four attachment styles and how they show up in love
âś“ The first steps to creating emotional safety and lasting intimacy
You’re not broken. Your relationship isn’t doomed. You’re just stuck in a cycle that you can change.
